[ Several things to unpack here. One, Connor's died before now, so those things he was afraid of, he's experienced. On top of that, this reaction of Hank's probably has some of that built up in it, as well.

But, the more he says, the more-- "Fucked up that I fall for the first cute guy who gave a shit about me," it strikes something in her and...well, Rebecca's downing quite a bit of her drink before he's done, as well. ]

It's not...easy, to get over someone, who you've a relationship like that with-- who's unavailable. [ Emotionally or otherwise. ] You've got an uphill climb...Hank.